Organizing a Reunion

Let’s Have a Reunion!

How to Organize a Spirited Reunion

Thinking of organizing a reunion? This is where the Alumni Relations can help! We want to help you plan a reunion to remember!

Getting Started

Contact our office! We have the resources to contact your classmates and we can get the word out that your reunion year is coming up. Team up with a few of your fellow alumni to spread the workload. It is sometimes useful to send out any initial letter or email to the group to gauge the level of interest for the reunion and what preferences there are towards the locations and type of event. Facebook is an excellent tool to garner interest in your reunion.

Decide Who to Invite

Do you want to include fellow alumni from just one year or make it a multi-year reunion? Will you invite spouses/partners, children, former teachers?

Contact us so that we can give you a breakdown of how many email and home addresses we have for your former classmates. Be aware that the details we hold are only as up to date as our graduates have provided us.

We ask that you keep the alumni office updated with any new contact information you may find for your fellow graduates. Any new contact information we gather from attendees of the event will be updated in our database to ensure we have accurate data for your next reunion!

Choose a Date, Time and Venue

Will your reunion be during one evening, all day, or a full weekend? Only your classmate’s individual budgets and ambition limit the possibilities.

If you are already in contact with your group and most likely live locally, you may be able to pull the event together quickly. For best attendance, we encourage you to set the date as much as a year in advance, so people can plan vacations, etc. around the reunion. While your reunion can be held any time during the year, may we suggest holding your event during Homecoming Weekend? This is usually in October. You can view Paraclete’s calendar of events to find out exactly when it is this year (the date is determined in early June of each year).

Put Together Your Program

You may want to set up a meeting to help facilitate the following:

Determine the maximum cost per person for the reunion.

Would you prefer a sit-down dinner, buffet, BBQ, or just drinks and mingling?

Will your class participate in a Class Gift Campaign for Paraclete’s Alumni Department to offset the costs of Alumni Newsletters or perhaps a gift to the school’s Annual Fund?

You may have payments for your reunion collected by Paraclete – checks or credit cards only. To do so, please contact me (see below) so we can discuss the details of this arrangement. Please note that after sixty days after the reunion, any remaining funds become a gift to Paraclete High School, deposited in the Alumni account to help offset the costs of the Alumni Newsletters.

You could also consider other additions to the day:

A Commemorative Mass

Tours of the school

Display of photos or memorabilia from your years at Paraclete.

Letters, Emails and Event Promotion & Other Ideas

Use social media to promote your reunion. Consider posting classmate photos, current event memories, and music clips from your high school days.

Consider getting business sponsorships for the reunion to offset the costs and to possibly have money left over for a gift to Paraclete. A recent multi-year class reunion was very successful doing this and was able to donate $3500.00 to help with financial aid for tuition.

Consider getting donations from businesses for raffle prizes. Hosting a raffle at your reunion could increase your revenue, again, for the purpose of giving to Paraclete.

All of the above could be shared on social media to increase enthusiasm and interest.

About four-five months before the reunion:

Save the date card/email goes out to all invitees. (What, where, when, and invite others to help plan the reunion).

About three months before the reunion:

The second letter/email/phone call is to stimulate further interest. Tell them how many have shown interest (you could even list names) and that the more people attend, the better it will be.

One-two months before the reunion:

The official Reunion Invitation should contain the finalized program, RSVP method, accommodation details, etc.

During the Reunion

Your Alumni Coordinator may stop by to chat with your classmates, take photos, and ask for updates on what’s new with the attendees. Consider pooling together a class donation to Paraclete with consideration to the gratitude you have for your education and the spirited events that made up your four years. Consider a fun 50/50 raffle with the winner receiving half of the pot, and Paraclete receiving the other half. Helping Paraclete with its mission would be most appreciated. Please note that a direct request for a donation will not be made by the Alumni Coordinator during your reunion. Your celebration of the anniversary of your graduation is the reason for the gathering.

After the Reunion

You may want to send out an email/letter to thank all those who attended. Please ask them to keep in touch with the Alumni Relations Office and let us know when they change their address. This will help if you ever want to hold another reunion in the future, too!


If you were a senior class officer, you may feel it is your obligation to organize a class reunion. Many people fail to accomplish this goal for 3 reasons.

The number one reason that people never get the high school reunion planned is that there were unable to generate enough interest. Planning a class reunion requires money. In order to know how much of a budget you have, you need to get some sort of indication from people if they will come or not. As the organizer, the first priority is to get enough people interested that it makes sense to organize an event with a venue, food and entertainment. To be able to do that you need to know that there will be participation or else you will be financing the class reunion by yourself.

The second reason that reunion sometimes do not get off the ground is that not enough people find out about the event. Ten years or more after graduation many classmates have moved and changed addresses (often more than once). Finding people is a big part of the challenge of generating interest, because if you can’t find them, you can’t invite them. Social Media helps a lot in the pursuit of classmates.

Another problem with high school reunion planning relates to the task of collecting funds. Assuming that you found a large percentage of people, and you have succeeded in getting people psyched about the class reunion, the next major hurdle is getting them to commit to coming. Many people become procrastinators when it comes time to separate themselves from their money. Therefore, the more options you have for accepting payment the better. The Alumni Coordinator can assist you with collection of reunion payments through our school bookkeeper if you would like.

All three of these potential obstacles can be avoided by creating a website for the class reunion. Creating a high school reunion website is recommended at least a year prior to the event. That will give you plenty of time to generate interest, find people and collect money. The more time you have the better because classmates can save the date if they have enough notice.

Creating a class reunion website populated with events and trivia from the year you graduated is a great way to get people reminiscing about high school. The website also acts as a point of registration where classmates can update their profile and RSVP online. The website is viral in nature, so as people find out about it they tell others, who tell their friends, and so on. The reunion website also allows people to pay for a ticket with a credit card. People have become accustomed to paying for things with credit cards.

Making a high school reunion website is fast and easy to do. There are easy class reunion website builders that require no special skills. You will just be filling in forms and clicking on buttons. It is truly as easy as surfing the web or sending an email.

Let me know if there is anything that I may help you with. Enjoy your reunion!

Janet (Godde) Bower ’74 – Alumni Relations

(661) 943-3255 ext. 111